Respect is something you feel not something you see.

I just celebrated my 40th birthday this past weekend. Danica and I went to the House of Blues in Chicago for the Gospel Brunch. In the lobby, there was a sign that read, “Love is what you feel not what you see.” Servant Leadership defines the word “love” as a choice to respect another person. Love is not an emotion; it’s a choice to respect another person— even if they don’t deserve it because of their rude behavior or something they’ve inappropriately done.

Another sign I read there said, “Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never harm me!” That’s a lie … it truly is a lie. Words harm us much more than sticks and stones. Physical wounds heal rather quickly but emotional wounds run deep and sometimes words we say can never be taken back. I’m always looking for inspiration and the House of Blues didn’t let me down!

Joe Kiedinger

ACTION PLAN: Be aware of the words you are using this week!